<![CDATA[New blogpost (based on a discussion here over the weekend, so some of it might be familiar):]]>New blogpost (based on a discussion here over the weekend, so some of it might be familiar):

"Sex and the Fedi"

https://neilzone.co.uk/2026/04/sex-and-the-fedi/

]]>https://forum.pierobosio.it/topic/9c93f938-d3a5-44b0-8756-fcdea0eaddb7/new-blogpost-based-on-a-discussion-here-over-the-weekend-so-some-of-it-might-be-familiarRSS for NodeThu, 23 Apr 2026 20:35:34 GMTTue, 07 Apr 2026 16:03:52 GMT60<![CDATA[Reply to New blogpost (based on a discussion here over the weekend, so some of it might be familiar): on Tue, 07 Apr 2026 21:45:54 GMT]]>@Thegriffyn I always have time for a Monty Python reference :)

]]>https://forum.pierobosio.it/post/https://mastodon.neilzone.co.uk/users/neil/statuses/116365613791935229https://forum.pierobosio.it/post/https://mastodon.neilzone.co.uk/users/neil/statuses/116365613791935229Tue, 07 Apr 2026 21:45:54 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to New blogpost (based on a discussion here over the weekend, so some of it might be familiar): on Tue, 07 Apr 2026 21:44:42 GMT]]>@neil hello, we are the overthinkers club, come in, sit down, we have cookies but now we’re not sure we baked the correct cookies and oh god everyone hates our cookies why did we ever think cookies were a good idea and who died and made us queens of overthinking who were we to think we should start an entire club for overthinking this whole thing is a disaster

]]>https://forum.pierobosio.it/post/https://thx.gg/users/interpipes/statuses/116365609032532318https://forum.pierobosio.it/post/https://thx.gg/users/interpipes/statuses/116365609032532318Tue, 07 Apr 2026 21:44:42 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to New blogpost (based on a discussion here over the weekend, so some of it might be familiar): on Tue, 07 Apr 2026 19:36:32 GMT]]>@Jaimieserotica @neil the main reason I probably wouldn't boost the "fun stuff" is that I'm extremely aware that amateur radio is historically a very male dominated hobby
It's often a "boys club" and you'll see plenty of disrespectful and inappropriate images on sstv, comments about and to not-men etc.

I'm very keen to make this server a welcome and inclusive place, boosting the "fun stuff" feels like it could be uncomfortable for enough people who I want to be welcome to make it worth avoiding

]]>https://forum.pierobosio.it/post/https://mastodon.radio/users/M0YNG/statuses/116365105088958406https://forum.pierobosio.it/post/https://mastodon.radio/users/M0YNG/statuses/116365105088958406Tue, 07 Apr 2026 19:36:32 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to New blogpost (based on a discussion here over the weekend, so some of it might be familiar): on Tue, 07 Apr 2026 19:30:10 GMT]]>@Szescstopni @neil yeah! Share the thiiiings! ❤️

]]>https://forum.pierobosio.it/post/https://mastodon.social/users/girlonthenet/statuses/116365080060723474https://forum.pierobosio.it/post/https://mastodon.social/users/girlonthenet/statuses/116365080060723474Tue, 07 Apr 2026 19:30:10 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to New blogpost (based on a discussion here over the weekend, so some of it might be familiar): on Tue, 07 Apr 2026 19:22:40 GMT]]>@neil it is forbidden to post porn on my instance, i wonder if that applies to boosts as well.

]]>https://forum.pierobosio.it/post/https://mastodon.com.pl/users/b00g13/statuses/116365050538226642https://forum.pierobosio.it/post/https://mastodon.com.pl/users/b00g13/statuses/116365050538226642Tue, 07 Apr 2026 19:22:40 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to New blogpost (based on a discussion here over the weekend, so some of it might be familiar): on Tue, 07 Apr 2026 18:37:24 GMT]]>@neil Fuck my inhibitions and fear of seeming creepy. I'm going to boost more of @girlonthenet and some other wonderful people I got to know here. I'm here to share good things and ideas, not my body fluids.

]]>https://forum.pierobosio.it/post/https://circumstances.run/users/Szescstopni/statuses/116364872563044335https://forum.pierobosio.it/post/https://circumstances.run/users/Szescstopni/statuses/116364872563044335Tue, 07 Apr 2026 18:37:24 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to New blogpost (based on a discussion here over the weekend, so some of it might be familiar): on Tue, 07 Apr 2026 18:05:28 GMT]]>@neil @Jaimieserotica oh indeed.
That one particular commentator is wrong and should feel bad.

]]>https://forum.pierobosio.it/post/https://hulvr.com/users/hulver/statuses/116364747006690405https://forum.pierobosio.it/post/https://hulvr.com/users/hulver/statuses/116364747006690405Tue, 07 Apr 2026 18:05:28 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to New blogpost (based on a discussion here over the weekend, so some of it might be familiar): on Tue, 07 Apr 2026 18:02:06 GMT]]>@hulver
I genuinely think the world would be a better place if everyone read her writing. Certainly a kinder, more tolerant, open minded world anyway.
@neil

]]>https://forum.pierobosio.it/post/https://kinkycats.org/users/Jaimieserotica/statuses/116364733731978079https://forum.pierobosio.it/post/https://kinkycats.org/users/Jaimieserotica/statuses/116364733731978079Tue, 07 Apr 2026 18:02:06 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to New blogpost (based on a discussion here over the weekend, so some of it might be familiar): on Tue, 07 Apr 2026 17:59:37 GMT]]>@Jaimieserotica @neil I follow a few fantastic sex bloggers, and I boost what I think I can. I've learned so much from GoTN and I think loads of people would benefit from being aware of her.

]]>https://forum.pierobosio.it/post/https://hulvr.com/users/hulver/statuses/116364723964534546https://forum.pierobosio.it/post/https://hulvr.com/users/hulver/statuses/116364723964534546Tue, 07 Apr 2026 17:59:37 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to New blogpost (based on a discussion here over the weekend, so some of it might be familiar): on Tue, 07 Apr 2026 17:57:53 GMT]]>@hulver @Jaimieserotica

One might need to differentiate:

* you, being mindful of what you boost; and

* one particular commentator, who appeared to be of the view that the web should be tailored, by default, to their preferences, with anything that they did not wish to see being hidden away

!

]]>https://forum.pierobosio.it/post/https://mastodon.neilzone.co.uk/users/neil/statuses/116364717144443325https://forum.pierobosio.it/post/https://mastodon.neilzone.co.uk/users/neil/statuses/116364717144443325Tue, 07 Apr 2026 17:57:53 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to New blogpost (based on a discussion here over the weekend, so some of it might be familiar): on Tue, 07 Apr 2026 17:55:52 GMT]]>@hulver
Fair enough. Good point, well made.
@neil

]]>https://forum.pierobosio.it/post/https://kinkycats.org/users/Jaimieserotica/statuses/116364709255350230https://forum.pierobosio.it/post/https://kinkycats.org/users/Jaimieserotica/statuses/116364709255350230Tue, 07 Apr 2026 17:55:52 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to New blogpost (based on a discussion here over the weekend, so some of it might be familiar): on Tue, 07 Apr 2026 17:53:29 GMT]]>@Jaimieserotica @neil I do have a reasonable expectation about what I'll be exposed to.
The reason I'm reluctant to boost posts from sex bloggers, is that my followers haven't. They share some of my interests, but not all.
I'm friends with many of my followers, and it would feel a bit weird to me to boost sex content at them.

]]>https://forum.pierobosio.it/post/https://hulvr.com/users/hulver/statuses/116364699867250382https://forum.pierobosio.it/post/https://hulvr.com/users/hulver/statuses/116364699867250382Tue, 07 Apr 2026 17:53:29 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to New blogpost (based on a discussion here over the weekend, so some of it might be familiar): on Tue, 07 Apr 2026 17:39:50 GMT]]>@neil Good post, Neil and some interesting points raised by other commentators.
Some, however, seem to be missing the point. The post was about sex-content creators, so when someone says 'your sex life is not a spectator sport anywhere...' we're not talking about random passers by, we're talking about people who have followed a creator.
If you've followed 'Jaimie's Erotica' there is a reasonable expectation that you might be exposed to erotica. Having done so, why be shy about engaging?

]]>https://forum.pierobosio.it/post/https://kinkycats.org/users/Jaimieserotica/statuses/116364646209943312https://forum.pierobosio.it/post/https://kinkycats.org/users/Jaimieserotica/statuses/116364646209943312Tue, 07 Apr 2026 17:39:50 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to New blogpost (based on a discussion here over the weekend, so some of it might be familiar): on Tue, 07 Apr 2026 17:28:08 GMT]]>@holsta I used one for a few minutes, and while I would love to love it, for its ethos and openness, I'm just not sure I could flex around it enough.

]]>https://forum.pierobosio.it/post/https://mastodon.neilzone.co.uk/users/neil/statuses/116364600160439588https://forum.pierobosio.it/post/https://mastodon.neilzone.co.uk/users/neil/statuses/116364600160439588Tue, 07 Apr 2026 17:28:08 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to New blogpost (based on a discussion here over the weekend, so some of it might be familiar): on Tue, 07 Apr 2026 17:25:40 GMT]]>@neil Ugh, I'm *this* close to getting an MNT Pocket. Phones just seem to not want to be real computers that we can use however we want.

]]>https://forum.pierobosio.it/post/https://mastodon.art/users/holsta/statuses/116364590501473593https://forum.pierobosio.it/post/https://mastodon.art/users/holsta/statuses/116364590501473593Tue, 07 Apr 2026 17:25:40 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to New blogpost (based on a discussion here over the weekend, so some of it might be familiar): on Tue, 07 Apr 2026 17:19:33 GMT]]>@holsta No, as it is not FOSS, sadly.

]]>https://forum.pierobosio.it/post/https://mastodon.neilzone.co.uk/users/neil/statuses/116364566409866328https://forum.pierobosio.it/post/https://mastodon.neilzone.co.uk/users/neil/statuses/116364566409866328Tue, 07 Apr 2026 17:19:33 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to New blogpost (based on a discussion here over the weekend, so some of it might be familiar): on Tue, 07 Apr 2026 17:18:13 GMT]]>@neil Sorry, I barely touch Android - I only know that Termius supports FIDO2, but I assume you've tried that?

]]>https://forum.pierobosio.it/post/https://mastodon.art/users/holsta/statuses/116364561186495045https://forum.pierobosio.it/post/https://mastodon.art/users/holsta/statuses/116364561186495045Tue, 07 Apr 2026 17:18:13 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to New blogpost (based on a discussion here over the weekend, so some of it might be familiar): on Tue, 07 Apr 2026 17:17:42 GMT]]>@Colman I don't expect it, but if I like, and reply, and do so multiple times, without a response, I generally decide that I could be unwelcome, and so desist. Perhaps I am unduly cautious, but oh well.

]]>https://forum.pierobosio.it/post/https://mastodon.neilzone.co.uk/users/neil/statuses/116364559139623989https://forum.pierobosio.it/post/https://mastodon.neilzone.co.uk/users/neil/statuses/116364559139623989Tue, 07 Apr 2026 17:17:42 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to New blogpost (based on a discussion here over the weekend, so some of it might be familiar): on Tue, 07 Apr 2026 17:14:56 GMT]]>@neil if they're open follow they're open follow. If they need to approve followers and approved then they approved it. Either way they can always block you. I don't expect people I follow to necessarily engage when I do.

]]>https://forum.pierobosio.it/post/https://mastodon.ie/users/Colman/statuses/116364548253861858https://forum.pierobosio.it/post/https://mastodon.ie/users/Colman/statuses/116364548253861858Tue, 07 Apr 2026 17:14:56 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to New blogpost (based on a discussion here over the weekend, so some of it might be familiar): on Tue, 07 Apr 2026 17:08:41 GMT]]>@holsta I've yet to find a Free software Android terminal client which supports using *-sk (resident or non-resident) certificates for cert-based ssh.

I think that the answer is, quite simply, that there is none.

]]>https://forum.pierobosio.it/post/https://mastodon.neilzone.co.uk/users/neil/statuses/116364523672095703https://forum.pierobosio.it/post/https://mastodon.neilzone.co.uk/users/neil/statuses/116364523672095703Tue, 07 Apr 2026 17:08:41 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to New blogpost (based on a discussion here over the weekend, so some of it might be familiar): on Tue, 07 Apr 2026 17:06:32 GMT]]>@neil I'm on your side! What's the issue?

]]>https://forum.pierobosio.it/post/https://mastodon.art/users/holsta/statuses/116364515239453169https://forum.pierobosio.it/post/https://mastodon.art/users/holsta/statuses/116364515239453169Tue, 07 Apr 2026 17:06:32 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to New blogpost (based on a discussion here over the weekend, so some of it might be familiar): on Tue, 07 Apr 2026 17:05:15 GMT]]>@aphyr

*sigh*

]]>https://forum.pierobosio.it/post/https://mastodon.neilzone.co.uk/users/neil/statuses/116364510203139197https://forum.pierobosio.it/post/https://mastodon.neilzone.co.uk/users/neil/statuses/116364510203139197Tue, 07 Apr 2026 17:05:15 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to New blogpost (based on a discussion here over the weekend, so some of it might be familiar): on Tue, 07 Apr 2026 17:05:03 GMT]]>@GoingDownWithSundial

Welcome to me :)

]]>https://forum.pierobosio.it/post/https://mastodon.neilzone.co.uk/users/neil/statuses/116364509433342825https://forum.pierobosio.it/post/https://mastodon.neilzone.co.uk/users/neil/statuses/116364509433342825Tue, 07 Apr 2026 17:05:03 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to New blogpost (based on a discussion here over the weekend, so some of it might be familiar): on Tue, 07 Apr 2026 17:04:51 GMT]]>@holsta I am fighting with *-sk ssh keys and Android at the moment. I am not winning :(

]]>https://forum.pierobosio.it/post/https://mastodon.neilzone.co.uk/users/neil/statuses/116364508627215024https://forum.pierobosio.it/post/https://mastodon.neilzone.co.uk/users/neil/statuses/116364508627215024Tue, 07 Apr 2026 17:04:51 GMT