Forget trad wives, the new influencer trend should be #NerdWives.

[annieg@mementomori.social]

@elena I am working on becoming a #NerdGrandma but the little grey cells are balking. I may come back hoping for tips on setting up what I need to run a local Bonfire instance, and/or Ghost, so my grandsons have someplace safe to play....

[baconandcoconut@freeradical.zone]

@elena @csgraves This is very much a "yes and" ... if you end up getting really excited about what all you could self-host, there's a whole book written for folks who are early on in their journey, (by @meonkeys )

https://selfhostbook.com/

[suzannealdrich@hachyderm.io]

@elena Does it have to be wives though? What about those of us who are not partnered?

[kevin@dice.camp]

@elena I have a nerd wife. Instead of arguing about which restaurant to eat at we argue about opening firewall ports, do we put the one device on the same guest network as the in-laws or its own (more out of fear of what the in-laws bring), who gets to upgrade their machine(s), why she gets a fancier web cam, what am I *really* storing on the NAS, etc.

Of course, the nerdly hobbies is where it gets fun :D

[elena@aseachange.com]

@nirina 😂​😂​😂​😂​ this genuinely made me laugh out loud. I LOVE IT

[elena@aseachange.com]

@Fxiz @verymetalsite  I'm proud to be on this brave new adventure... for about a year and a half now

[elena@aseachange.com]

@Sharksonaplane @harry_wood I LOVE Veronica! And I'm a proud backer on her Patreon. She is truly the best

[elena@aseachange.com]

@AnnieG ooooooh I LOVE the concept of #NerdGrandma - I wish my mom would become one for my little one.

I haven't tried installing Bonfire via YunoHost (I need to see if it's available) but for Ghost I would recommend a manual installation via Ghost CLI. I have done it last year and it's still possible for a while (Ghosy v7 will move to Docker only).

If you ever need any help/guidance, feel free to get in touch. I'm still a newbie but I've done my fair share of self-hosting experiments

[elena@aseachange.com]

@baconandcoconut @csgraves @meonkeys oooooh I will check it out. For now I try to stay away from YunoHost's app catalog because it is just sooo tempting

[elena@aseachange.com]

@suzannealdrich of course not - everyone's welcome on this amazing journey.

I just need to personally apologize if you never heard of trad wives and you found out about this trend via my toot. Sorry Suzanne. It's a thing.

Please do not look it up if you weren't aware of it, just carry along, you'll be much happier

[elena@aseachange.com]

@kevin ooooh I LOVE this! ❤️​

[po3mah@mastodon.social]

@elena My wife asked me to teach her how to solder. I asked her to teach me how to sew.

[elena@aseachange.com]

@po3mah awesome!

I've asked my 5-year-old to teach me how to sew because she learned in pre-school and she's really talented at that. She's very proud that she can excel at something mom and dad can't do 😅​

[huubje@ieji.de]

@elena following your journey going from "hey this stuff isn't that bad" to full blown passion is really fun to see. Just don't forget that this stuff IS complicated, but that there is a lot of fun to be had in solving the problems. Especially if you get to share the results and gains of the solutions. Keep it up, don't give up. You've got this!

[elena@aseachange.com]

@Huubje thank you for the kind words and the encouragement 🥰​

[hackersquirrel@kolektiva.social]

@elena
My ideal has always been a partner with the mind of a scientist and the soul of a hippie.

[elena@aseachange.com]

@hackersquirrel I love it ❤️​