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@strangequark For example "the party" (gaming term) is an it. It's a concept I think.
but "the party ordered drinks" is a they - group of people.
There's a subtlety about party in RPG I think there. You can legitimately use it as an IT, but also as a THEY depend on the level of abstraction.
I think "the party encounters a troll" is an it form
They attack the troll is the players/group.
@strangequark I think the pronoun there is They though, I can't remember why and it might be different between US and British English. I think it's something to do with objects and ideas vs groups.
I suppose "A Party" can be either the idea of one or a group of people though.
It really works very differently from the other places, and lots of us aren't tech geeks, but you need to follow people and find people yourself. If someone you really like is on an instance chatting about something you like consider moving to that instance if they are open, it'll really help.