@SarraceniaWilds Yeah, that was my point with my message. As someone that was bullied in school, the usual reply I always had was "Just ignore them" .
With time, and reflection, I learned that the real message was "Let us ignore your problem". So they don't need to do anything. So they don't need to take responsibility. So they don't do anything.
Of course, men say that when other men harass a woman. Because confronting other men and making them see the piece of garbo they are, is not easy.