@nycki @smallcircles But the general 'eh, I just want you to delete it' I would only want to honour for the first of those options.One more project on the yak stack haha (to write an AP server that can be configured to work that way, with 'posts that federate', 'posts that are viewable on the web but do not federate', and 'private post archive', and eg 'delete request' just by default changes the federate -> non-federate, and maybe a flow for manual actual delete accept).