This is something I’ve experienced as well.

[danirabbit@mastodon.online]

This is something I’ve experienced as well. Certain staff members will literally tell you to your face to lie to get around policy. It’s an expected part of the process. Which like, what in the neurotypical fuck https://infosec.exchange/@JessTheUnstill/115248244782828488

[jesstheunstill@infosec.exchange]

@danirabbit How dare you want to be honest to people... I hate doing it because both my upbringing and my 'tism hates directly lying to people. But it was only after I went through various different experiences over the years where I learned NTs and bureaucracy don't give a shit about being absolutely honest. It's required to lie in order to get what you need.

[symtrkl@anarres.family]

@JessTheUnstill @danirabbit Insane how there's this expectation that everyone is going to lie a little bit, and that's okay and normal and people presumably account for this when you tell them something.

Um, no, if I'm lying it's because I am trying to con someone who I feel does not deserve to be dealt with fairly. People should not want or expect me to do that!

[danirabbit@mastodon.online]

@SymTrkl @JessTheUnstill yea exactly this. And now we’re in this weird situation where we’re trying to manipulate each other instead of just communicating. And we’re the ones with a disability???

[jesstheunstill@infosec.exchange]

I remember a post a while back:
A diagnosis of Neurotypical as written by Autistic people.

It was pretty damning of NTs.
@danirabbit @SymTrkl

[symtrkl@anarres.family]

@JessTheUnstill Same brain. I actually managed to find it again, for once.
@danirabbit