Il disagio causato dalle #campane rumorose oltre i limiti di legge è diffuso.
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Il disagio causato dalle #campane rumorose oltre i limiti di legge è diffuso. Riceviamo tante richieste di aiuto da persone esasperate allo sportello SOS Laicità.
Per difendersi dalle campane "selvagge" 👇
https://www.uaar.it/laicita/campane/
Gli ultimi otto messaggi ricevuti dalla Federazione
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- Ma', sai, sto imparando a fare i pupazzetti all'uncinetto.
Mia madre dopo UN giorno: mi compra la Apple degli uncinetti e 10 kg di filo.
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@afewbugs ouch. It's one of those situations where any move is going to cause a little bit of pain. There would probably have been a diplomatic way to “guide” future cake baking towards more appreciated flavor, but it's very hard to come forward and say what one prefers unless they are being asked, especially if what's being given is a gift.
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@LaVi
Credevo fossi varesina! Mezzo metro di neve? Dove? 😃
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@afewbugs *hug*
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@afewbugs 🫂 any time you do need any chocolate cake eaten, I'm here for it... er, you... here for you
I prefer coffee cake, but I fear that speaks to other addictions of mine 😇
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But yeah, not sure where I was going with this and it's probably more something to unpack in therapy than share on the internet honestly, but thank you to the people who ask what people want before cooking for them. And we should probably all be doing that a bit more, and I should probably do more work on feeling I can express what I want without feeling I'm hurting people by doing so. Also it's okay not to like something everyone else loves, whether that's chocolate cake or birthday presents
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@afewbugs There's nothing self-indulgent about that; it sounds like you spent many years indulging other peoples' fantasies about what you should and shouldn't like. And, sorry to say, that experience is also familiar to me, too.
I hope you treat yourself to non-chocolate confectionary nowadays :)
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Anyway I ate a lot of chocolate cake (I also flushed quite a few slices my housemate made down the toilet). And that obviously didn't really serve anyone, my friends put a lot of effort into making something that just made me miserable.
I wish I could say I got better at overcoming this early conditioning, but instead I went vegan. I was also really uncomfortable talking about that at first, feeling it was another thing people would assume I was doing as a special diet for attention, but I think I've managed to convince myself that people with disabilities and conditions are just as entitled to make ethical choices as anyone even if it is more complicated. But a convenient side effect is no one really tries to bake for me anymore, so no more chocolate cake
