@jane i argue against specific features, that are often included in "parental control"
so far the only thing people convinced me could be okay, is screen timeout timers
what i get worried is, for a teenager, making it easy to allowlist websites and content types, and making it easy to track everything they do with their devices
sure, there is other ways of doings those things, but the easier those tools are to enable and use, the more i saw them get abused