If you have a long term partner that you live with, do you usually sleep in the same bed?

[clarfonthey@toot.cat]

@eniko answered other because the answer is yes but immigration is a shit

[gabrielesvelto@mas.to]

@eniko yes, and once you have kids cats the number of beings in the same bed tends to go up, especially during winter

[irina@critter.cafe]

@eniko three people in a king bed, but two separate blankets. even for just two people, separate blankets is a game changer

[pawv@tech.lgbt]

@karaksindru @eniko This.

[shadow53@floss.social]

@eniko Answered "other" because we currently do but are seriously considering getting separate beds because we have very different preferences

[tomf@mastodon.gamedev.place]

@mctwist @eniko I use a ~20 degree wedge pillow for my upper body, and that massively reduces the snoring.

Also, quietly and calmly telling someone to roll over and sleep on their side will make them do it without even waking them up. I learned that trick from The Abyss!

[tomf@mastodon.gamedev.place]

@eniko Separate because my wife goes to bed and wakes up much earlier than me, and if I wake her up in the middle of sleeping, she has a very tough time getting back to sleep.

[patrick_h_lauke@mastodon.social]

@eniko wife and i like to have lots of space...so we got two large double beds. also, she still claims i snore...

[disorderlyf@todon.eu]

@eniko Had one before where we didn't because chronic pain and insomnia with separate sleep "schedules" made it difficult for either of us to get more than a few hours of sleep. As far as I can tell, it didn't effect the relationship.

[airakose@mastodon.gamedev.place]

@eniko Same bedframe, different mattresses and sheets

(they require extra firm concrete and I desire clouds)