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So I dont think my reading the rules and finding a hole in the rules would happen…. Which got me in trouble when they decided to enforce “common sense”
When you get back and can tell me if you are understanding the difference between harassment that means annoying and a harassment that meets a legal definition… and I got banned for about a level of annoyance. And not a level of malicious. But the rules conveyed a closer to legal definition (like sub legal definition, well beyond annoying)
A persistent toxic fight style they never once warned me they wanted to ban me for despite the rules saying they would warn.
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When you get back and can tell me if you are understanding the difference between harassment that means annoying and a harassment that meets a legal definition… and I got banned for about a level of annoyance. And not a level of malicious. But the rules conveyed a closer to legal definition (like sub legal definition, well beyond annoying)
A persistent toxic fight style they never once warned me they wanted to ban me for despite the rules saying they would warn.
A low toxicity which is why they didnt do it sooner… but a toxicity all the same… and one that the rules say they will educate you on and then they didnt. This is what I mean by a switch over to common sense rather than what was explicitly stated…
And I admit what I did was wrong to most people… but it also wasnt in the rules.
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A low toxicity which is why they didnt do it sooner… but a toxicity all the same… and one that the rules say they will educate you on and then they didnt. This is what I mean by a switch over to common sense rather than what was explicitly stated…
And I admit what I did was wrong to most people… but it also wasnt in the rules.
Years of a pattern of behavior where I did a bunch of low-level offenses not enumerated in the rules That classify as annoying. We are talking the kind of behavior where you follow somebody around for an extra five minutes after you’ve been told to go away.
With nearly no name calling to speak of while the other people called me slurs. And they are still on the site and I am not.
Anyway… they should probably be more explicit if they are now going to instant ban for it.
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Years of a pattern of behavior where I did a bunch of low-level offenses not enumerated in the rules That classify as annoying. We are talking the kind of behavior where you follow somebody around for an extra five minutes after you’ve been told to go away.
With nearly no name calling to speak of while the other people called me slurs. And they are still on the site and I am not.
Anyway… they should probably be more explicit if they are now going to instant ban for it.
I think the issue I have with this is just that well as much as it was silly when Facebook suspended me for calling somebody a silly goose for calling me me a commie, At least when told me that what I did was dehumanizing language With an example of calling somebody a cow, it made sense to me why I was being suspended.
I actually had to ask other people with this one… And they said it’s common sense what I was doing was harassment but it wasn’t to me with their description.
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I think the issue I have with this is just that well as much as it was silly when Facebook suspended me for calling somebody a silly goose for calling me me a commie, At least when told me that what I did was dehumanizing language With an example of calling somebody a cow, it made sense to me why I was being suspended.
I actually had to ask other people with this one… And they said it’s common sense what I was doing was harassment but it wasn’t to me with their description.
Basically if we can deal with the kind of rule breaker that breaks rules that aren’t listed Breaks rules because they could never fathomed them to be against the rules… Yeah I guess I’ll be able to stay here.
And the times that I broke the rules almost every time I was in a fight.
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Basically if we can deal with the kind of rule breaker that breaks rules that aren’t listed Breaks rules because they could never fathomed them to be against the rules… Yeah I guess I’ll be able to stay here.
And the times that I broke the rules almost every time I was in a fight.
The dress code when I was in school, was something where I wore short skirts over leggings. And turtle necks under jumper skirts. And got away with items said to be banned like this. And that’s the kind of rule breaker I am. Either… its cause Im autistic. And cried too much in class which isnt in the rule book explicitly… or I look at the rules and ride up on them on purpose… and yes its a little wrong… but it wasnt actually breaking any rules…
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The dress code when I was in school, was something where I wore short skirts over leggings. And turtle necks under jumper skirts. And got away with items said to be banned like this. And that’s the kind of rule breaker I am. Either… its cause Im autistic. And cried too much in class which isnt in the rule book explicitly… or I look at the rules and ride up on them on purpose… and yes its a little wrong… but it wasnt actually breaking any rules…
Im a rule breaker who is an unspecified disruption to the learning environment and needs to be sectioned off to the people who know me…
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Im a rule breaker who is an unspecified disruption to the learning environment and needs to be sectioned off to the people who know me…
Not inherently harmful… intentionally a little spicy…. But if Im not thinking about how I went without snap benefits for a week im unlikely to blow my stack in ways that make me look like a jackass who looks for fights since people oh so wanted this really long shutdown and I was so very angry I was made to suffer for ungrateful people.
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Not inherently harmful… intentionally a little spicy…. But if Im not thinking about how I went without snap benefits for a week im unlikely to blow my stack in ways that make me look like a jackass who looks for fights since people oh so wanted this really long shutdown and I was so very angry I was made to suffer for ungrateful people.
I think “I want to haunt all these assholes”
Because they made me beg. And I feel angry for being exposed to those opinions… I hated the feeling of being a sacrifice to those who wont appreciate my sacrifice…
Its a powder keg. And I WAS FEELING STEAMING LAVA. And yet… still wouldnt call someone more than jackass.
I hope I can do better to just not see it this time. My feelings and sense of safety and support felt violated… and I wanted to hit back.
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I think “I want to haunt all these assholes”
Because they made me beg. And I feel angry for being exposed to those opinions… I hated the feeling of being a sacrifice to those who wont appreciate my sacrifice…
Its a powder keg. And I WAS FEELING STEAMING LAVA. And yet… still wouldnt call someone more than jackass.
I hope I can do better to just not see it this time. My feelings and sense of safety and support felt violated… and I wanted to hit back.
I expected people to be more empathetic and understanding than they were. All I got was “no excuse!”
Yet they excuse actual crimes when hungry. Eff em.
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I expected people to be more empathetic and understanding than they were. All I got was “no excuse!”
Yet they excuse actual crimes when hungry. Eff em.
I was too frustrated on that site with very few people who actually understood what I was living like for the last 6 years…. Yet speaking to it….
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I was too frustrated on that site with very few people who actually understood what I was living like for the last 6 years…. Yet speaking to it….
I feel like I try very hard… and I want to be honest about myself and my issues… I think wanting to live causes more fights than wanting to die.
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I feel like I try very hard… and I want to be honest about myself and my issues… I think wanting to live causes more fights than wanting to die.
I dont want to think im more sinister when I want to live but… its possible…
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I dont want to think im more sinister when I want to live but… its possible…
I’ve never dealt with feelings of wanting to live before very recently…. So its hard I think. Basically… you got less to be mad about if you dont wanna live anyway… lot easier to not fight when you dont care if you live or die. Buncha stuff like that. This is the first year since I was 8.
All im saying is… be clear about rules. Message when Im breaking. I will course correct. But if a topic is toxic… easier if I can practice avoidance…
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And now a question for everybody.
(so those who are not new don't feel excluded and so you get notified when the poll above is closed even if you didn't vote)What is your main reason to be in the Fediverse?
(even though I say 'main' you can select multiple answers)#poll #fediverse #FediverseMeta #DigitalRights #DigitalIndependence #AskFedi
@PaulaToThePeople Been on here for a while, definitely a combo of decentralization/free software/etc. and the general good vibes!
We're furry, therians, and plural. (which we only found out after joining here!) Any ONE of those things would get us harassed in uh, a lot of places on the internet. Probably even most. Not here though.
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@PaulaToThePeople Been on here for a while, definitely a combo of decentralization/free software/etc. and the general good vibes!
We're furry, therians, and plural. (which we only found out after joining here!) Any ONE of those things would get us harassed in uh, a lot of places on the internet. Probably even most. Not here though.
@PaulaToThePeople I was always skeptical of the entire "social media" concept.
Turns out it's not so bad when it's decentralized and run by actual people, for actual people. :3
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And now a question for everybody.
(so those who are not new don't feel excluded and so you get notified when the poll above is closed even if you didn't vote)What is your main reason to be in the Fediverse?
(even though I say 'main' you can select multiple answers)#poll #fediverse #FediverseMeta #DigitalRights #DigitalIndependence #AskFedi
@PaulaToThePeople I chose two options for different reasons (sorry).
The reason I tried fedi was escaping arseholes.
The reason I stayed was good vibes.
If I'd known about fedi earlier - I moved in early 2022 - I would have dived in right away, I'm so much happier here.
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