New blogpost (based on a discussion here over the weekend, so some of it might be familiar):
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@Jaimieserotica @neil I do have a reasonable expectation about what I'll be exposed to.
The reason I'm reluctant to boost posts from sex bloggers, is that my followers haven't. They share some of my interests, but not all.
I'm friends with many of my followers, and it would feel a bit weird to me to boost sex content at them.One might need to differentiate:
* you, being mindful of what you boost; and
* one particular commentator, who appeared to be of the view that the web should be tailored, by default, to their preferences, with anything that they did not wish to see being hidden away
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@Jaimieserotica @neil I follow a few fantastic sex bloggers, and I boost what I think I can. I've learned so much from GoTN and I think loads of people would benefit from being aware of her.
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@Jaimieserotica @neil I follow a few fantastic sex bloggers, and I boost what I think I can. I've learned so much from GoTN and I think loads of people would benefit from being aware of her.
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One might need to differentiate:
* you, being mindful of what you boost; and
* one particular commentator, who appeared to be of the view that the web should be tailored, by default, to their preferences, with anything that they did not wish to see being hidden away
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@neil @Jaimieserotica oh indeed.
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New blogpost (based on a discussion here over the weekend, so some of it might be familiar):
"Sex and the Fedi"
@neil Fuck my inhibitions and fear of seeming creepy. I'm going to boost more of @girlonthenet and some other wonderful people I got to know here. I'm here to share good things and ideas, not my body fluids.
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New blogpost (based on a discussion here over the weekend, so some of it might be familiar):
"Sex and the Fedi"
@neil it is forbidden to post porn on my instance, i wonder if that applies to boosts as well.
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@neil Fuck my inhibitions and fear of seeming creepy. I'm going to boost more of @girlonthenet and some other wonderful people I got to know here. I'm here to share good things and ideas, not my body fluids.
@Szescstopni @neil yeah! Share the thiiiings! ❤️
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@neil Good post, Neil and some interesting points raised by other commentators.
Some, however, seem to be missing the point. The post was about sex-content creators, so when someone says 'your sex life is not a spectator sport anywhere...' we're not talking about random passers by, we're talking about people who have followed a creator.
If you've followed 'Jaimie's Erotica' there is a reasonable expectation that you might be exposed to erotica. Having done so, why be shy about engaging?@Jaimieserotica @neil the main reason I probably wouldn't boost the "fun stuff" is that I'm extremely aware that amateur radio is historically a very male dominated hobby
It's often a "boys club" and you'll see plenty of disrespectful and inappropriate images on sstv, comments about and to not-men etc.I'm very keen to make this server a welcome and inclusive place, boosting the "fun stuff" feels like it could be uncomfortable for enough people who I want to be welcome to make it worth avoiding
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Aside: sometimes I get worried about following someone, particularly if I post (kind! welcoming!) replies etc., but there is no interaction / response.
At that point, my "worrying about not wanting to be *that* unwanted man on the Internet" kicks in, so I tend to step back, and either or both not reply again, or unfollow.
And then I don't see their stuff, which means I can't promote it / engage with it etc., even if they actually welcomed it but just didn't want to engage.
*sigh*
@neil hello, we are the overthinkers club, come in, sit down, we have cookies but now we’re not sure we baked the correct cookies and oh god everyone hates our cookies why did we ever think cookies were a good idea and who died and made us queens of overthinking who were we to think we should start an entire club for overthinking this whole thing is a disaster
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@Thegriffyn I always have time for a Monty Python reference :)
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