If you comment "marry me" on one of my videos or a post online, I will block you.

[dunklecat@mastodon.dunklecat.dev]

@vkc @gbsills that's good. Ask yourself what you can do. Ask harassed people what they would like to see. One of the little actions you can do is listen to the people explaining the problem, give them support, give them a space where they can talk about the problem. Make them feel listened, make them feel understood. That's a good starting point

[dacmot@sunny.garden]

Nobody ever got hurt throwing fuel on a fire, right @hobo_ahoi? It would be funny to try, right?

Think about what you're saying and the impact to those concerned before giving "advice."

@vkc

[me@gts.bo0.tz]

@gbsills what a lame, defeatist take

[noodlejetski@masto.ai]

@gbsills @vkc next you gonna tell her she was asking for it because of how she was dressed

[mlevison@agilealliance.social]

@vkc @danimo

I hear you. I would challenge the behaviour when I see it, but I miss the problems because I don’t see your replies.

I would like to be more supportive.

[nicksworld@mastodon.stickbear.me]

@Binder @vkc People actually do this? That's insanity. These people just sound like freaks.

[mikeseye@mspsocial.net]

@vkc omg arrested development killed this bit over a decade ago.

[vkc@linuxmom.net]

@mikeseye I think that was 20 years ago now. That reminds me, I have to go take a multivitamin and a nap.

[mikeseye@mspsocial.net]

@vkc if i hedge i don't have to take my meds 🤣

[vkc@linuxmom.net]

Do I laugh, cry, or puke? I didn't invite this.

[s31bz@social.s31bz.com]

@vkc
Um ew

[dacmot@sunny.garden]

@vkc 🤮🤢🤮

[gblues@bolha.us]

@vkc it started well, but escalated to awful very quickly

[vkc@linuxmom.net]

@gblues explain to me how *literally any of this* "started well."

[addie@mastodon.addisonchernow.com]

@vkc men?

[vkc@linuxmom.net]

@addie always

[gsuberland@chaos.social]

@vkc incredibly gross, sorry this human detritus floats your way :(

[vkc@linuxmom.net]

Most men either think this kind of behavior is acceptable, or think it's inevitable. Neither is true.

Dudes: stand up and stop it when you see it.

[csilverman@mastodon.social]

@vkc "in a non arm candy way". JFC.

Comments like that speak volumes about what the inside of this guy's soul looks like.

[addie@mastodon.addisonchernow.com]

@vkc ugh. Men.