But yeah, not sure where I was going with this and it's probably more something to unpack in therapy than share on the internet honestly, but thank you to the people who ask what people want before cooking for them. And we should probably all be doing that a bit more, and I should probably do more work on feeling I can express what I want without feeling I'm hurting people by doing so. Also it's okay not to like something everyone else loves, whether that's chocolate cake or birthday presents