@aeva the specific aspect I'm thinking about is that for "thrive", you start with the tongue in a "lisping" position, then for the "ai" sound you pull it back quite violently and then go into the voiced labiodental fricative to propel the spit you just scraped off your tongue with your teeth forward
@briankrebs I have publicly "privately" mentioned people a couple times—only one of which was about me dreaming of them. But we ended up dating because of it, so 🤷🏼♀️ YMMV.
Then I discovered the merits of having no shame, so now I just say everything publicly 😁