@hashtaggames
"Recently, when I post the new #HashTagGames post at 9PM est, it has taken 15 minutes or longer for all instances on the #Fediverse to get it ... why is because my #ActivityPub #WordPress enabled site is getting #DDoS due to the sheer number of instances trying to communicate with us when the game goes out."
I often check for details when I see posts like this, in the off-hand chance I might learn something
You seem to be on a single-user host via Namecheap
Assuming you're posting using TCP/IP, each packet you send out to the Fediverse requires an ACK packet in return before it continues, and most transactions involve scores of packets
Have you used something like Wireshark to look at exactly what you're sending out and receiving?
I doubt you're being DDoSsed so much as your very small instance is suddenly talking to tens of thousands of other instances, each one of which is trying to talk back to you all at once
Shorter: the Internet is not instantaneous
cc @paul