Reclaiming the past: was Kurt Cobain trans?
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Reclaiming the past: was Kurt Cobain trans? https://medium.com/@dr.ow.sy/reclaiming-the-past-was-kurt-cobain-trans-6386d3e20bad
While we don't know there's certainly a lot there, from Kurt saying they wished they had breasts to saying they identified and felt more comfortable with women and over and over again saying they did not identify as male and also saying they thought their soul was gay.
Honestly I have wondered this a lot myself, and I think there are two reasons I spent my entire "masc" era in grunge attire: it was the clothing that most abstracted away the sense of self, and there was something about Kurt in particular that I felt a lot of attachment to. So maybe I'm projecting. But I have long wondered so myself.
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Reclaiming the past: was Kurt Cobain trans? https://medium.com/@dr.ow.sy/reclaiming-the-past-was-kurt-cobain-trans-6386d3e20bad
While we don't know there's certainly a lot there, from Kurt saying they wished they had breasts to saying they identified and felt more comfortable with women and over and over again saying they did not identify as male and also saying they thought their soul was gay.
Honestly I have wondered this a lot myself, and I think there are two reasons I spent my entire "masc" era in grunge attire: it was the clothing that most abstracted away the sense of self, and there was something about Kurt in particular that I felt a lot of attachment to. So maybe I'm projecting. But I have long wondered so myself.
@cwebber I wasn't a huge Nirvana fan, but their death hit me hard. I was just like, no. I wish you hadn't done that, Kurt...
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Reclaiming the past: was Kurt Cobain trans? https://medium.com/@dr.ow.sy/reclaiming-the-past-was-kurt-cobain-trans-6386d3e20bad
While we don't know there's certainly a lot there, from Kurt saying they wished they had breasts to saying they identified and felt more comfortable with women and over and over again saying they did not identify as male and also saying they thought their soul was gay.
Honestly I have wondered this a lot myself, and I think there are two reasons I spent my entire "masc" era in grunge attire: it was the clothing that most abstracted away the sense of self, and there was something about Kurt in particular that I felt a lot of attachment to. So maybe I'm projecting. But I have long wondered so myself.
@cwebber i also really like this piece of writing on the topic, which touches on how one reason this topic is so important to trans people is *because* kurt never explicitly identified as trans. we as a community *know* that we’ve lost siblings who never had the chance to realize who they were, because so many of us can see how that was almost us. and assumptions of “cis until proven otherwise” erase that.